And then she fell in love….
Finish your own story with your own happy ending.
Me and Advice::::
When I give advice to any of my friends or whoever, I take into consideration how I would feel in the situation.. I give my advice knowing that it may or may not go into the ear and out the other.. I don’t judge because who knows what I would do.
I give advice; step back; listen and hear that person out and I don’t judge them because they don’t take my advice.
That’s the beauty of having real and true friends because they will have your back no matter what route you take.
“See my father knew best when he said a man should fight for me. And baby I’m going to do whatever feels right for me…. ” - Janelle Monae…
YOU.
Love is a temporary madness. It erupts like an earthquake and then subsides. And when it subsides you have to make a decision. You have to work out whether your roots have become so entwined together that it is inconceivable that you should ever part. Because this is what love is. Love is not breathlessness, it is not excitement, it is not the promulgation of promises of eternal passion. That is just being “in love” which any fool can do. Love itself is what is left over when being in love has burned away, and this is both an art and a fortunate accident. Your mother and I had it, we had roots that grew towards each other underground, and when all the pretty blossom had fallen from our branches we found that we were one tree and not two.
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| — | Louis de Bernières, Captain Corelli’s Mandolin |
There are some you will lend your arm (help) to and try to hold them up and they seem to keep falling. But remember: some people just don’t want to get up. Don’t get caught trying to pull someone’s dead weight. Whatever you do, do it in love.
Some words are empty; its important to know the difference between empty words and words full of life and honest promises.
Just a reminder..you should never settle for just any guy but, rather, one who thinks you are the world and shows it with all his heart.
Ladies, Ladies, Ladies: Please stop falling in love with a man’s potential. Potential means nothing if they are unwilling to change.
Word to the wise.
I don’t know how many times I have to tell my single friends:::
Being in a relationship is like having another full-time job… Yes, it’s a beautiful thing but it takes hard work and much patience!!! And I have never been married before, but i’m pretty sure that’s like having about 100 full-time jobs.. So be content in your wait and just let it come when it’s supposed to!
It’s so simple: If someone doesn’t want to change to better themselves, there is nothing that anyone else can do unless they make up their own minds.
Why do I find this so hard to understand?! I’m not the savior of people!
Let’s Talk about Passions….
I believe that everyone should have a passion for something. You know when you have that passion because whatever you are partaking in makes you just feel overwhelmed with joy and you rather do nothing but that all day, whatever it is. A passion for something comes in my different way.. Some have passions for singing, drawing, writing poetry, or attending a bunch of live concerts. It’s what keep us sane and for some of us, keeps us out of a lot of trouble. My passion is theatre. I seriously cannot get enough. To watch a play start off and take shape to be a beautiful work of art towards the end is so lovely to me. The relationships that form in the process and even the drama can help me learn and grow. I am seriously alive when I’m on stage and I can’t wait to start getting my foot in the door for directing as well.
I suggest you find your passion and pursue it any way you know how. Do something that makes you happy. A lot of time we get boggled down with the everyday struggles of work and that boring routine. But embrace that passion, and you will see how life seems to unfold itself and becoming increasingly more interesting!!! Embrace it!
